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Published 09:47 15 Feb 2017 GMT
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Although many mums and dads of teenage girls may privately lean towards more 'demure' styles for their daughters, attendees of both genders were not impressed. Emily Donnelly, a media studies student at DCU, told event promoters that the dress code is indicative of female body-shaming,
"You're more than entitled to place a dress code on an event you're throwing, but the wording of your post is extremely problematic and promotes shaming female bodies. Wearing short dresses and a plunging neckline isn't deplorable, a body is a body and there isn't a problem with showing skin unless you're sexualising young girls."Another poster criticised the wording as reinforcing victim-blaming,
"You are well within your rights to enforce a dress code on any event. The wording however is shocking, this just further reinforces victim blaming and the 'you were asking for it' mentality."Niamh Moroney also suggested that event management should respect young women, rather than body-shaming them,
"Work with young people to change their attitudes towards sex and intoxication instead of banning natural features of women's bodies outright."But it wasn't just the girls who noted the dress code's gender-based hypocrisy, as the opposite sex highlighted the irony of the situation: [caption id="attachment_258220" align="aligncenter" width="491"]
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Yesterday, organisers defended their position with a separate post stating that the dress code has been in place since 2005,
"We organise these events for 15-year-old children to attend in a safe, supervised and fun environment. Our dress code has always been in place, since our first ever ball back in 2005. We put up a reminder of this before every ball and we also have it on the back of all tickets."However, Aoife Furlong wondered if promoters had confused 2005 with 1895, commenting, "I've ordered this instead do you think its ok?" [caption id="attachment_258227" align="aligncenter" width="309"]
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Jacqueline Healy, women's health and human rights coordinator for the National Women's Council of Ireland, told HerFamily that the policing of women's bodies and dress codes needs to stop,
"One in five women will experience domestic abuse at some time and we know that most young women have experience of sexual harassment. The focus is always on what the woman is wearing, not the perpetrator. This is dangerous as it sends the message to young women and girls that their actions and dress code are up for debate and makes them somewhat culpable. Women and girls should be able to wear what they want."
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